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Starting a Gifted Parents’ Group

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Forming a gifted parents group is one of the first steps in forming a community within a school district; one of support as well as advocacy. The needs of the students in the community will determine the type of group formed. Parent groups are a great way of networking and sharing information about the local school environment for gifted. They can lend support to other parents  or even teachers who may need help in finding resources. Parenting gifted children can be a lonely and challenging experience without this type of support.

Parent groups who choose to act as a support for parents can provide resources such as speakers, book studies, and educational resources. They may decide to offer enrichment for students outside of school such as sponsoring academic competitions or activities like Super Saturdays, family weekend retreats, or clubs for chess or robotics. Advocacy groups are needed when a school does not provide adequate services for gifted students; if any at all.

There are organizations who seek to support parents in various ways. Many state gifted organizations have local affiliates for parents. The NAGC (U.S.) provides online resources in the form of information on starting parent groups. SENG is perhaps best well known for supporting parents with their SENG Model Parent Groups. Links to these organizations have been provided below.

How can parents find other parents who might be interested in joining a group? Your child can be a great resource; they will know who is in the gifted program at school. Many school districts will send home flyers (provided by parents) or mass emails to parents of their gifted students. As a reminder, Psychologist Dr. Gail Post of Gifted Challenges pointed out, “Either type of group needs to have goals – otherwise [they] can turn into social group. Goals also help with group dynamics and reduce potential for conflict.” Social media is another way to meet parents and even form online groups.

In order to be recognized as a formal group by the local school district, parents need to know who and how to approach school officials. School administrators should be contacted first; then, gifted coordinators, principals, and special education directors depending on how gifted education is organized in the district or state. Having the support of an organization such as SENG can validate the existence of parent groups in some schools. It was also mentioned that PTA groups on occasion will form committees to serve the gifted population within a school. As with any communications between parents and schools, the conversation needs to be respectful and helpful to both parties. A transcript of this chat can be found at Storify.

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Global #gtchat Powered by the Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented  is a weekly chat on Twitter. Join us Tuesdays at 8E/7C/6M/5P in the U.S. and Wednesdays at  2 PM (14.00) NZDT/Noon (12.00) AEDT/1 AM (1.00) UK. to discuss current topics in the gifted community and meet experts in the field. Transcripts of our weekly chats can be found atStorify. Our Facebook Page provides information on the chat and news & information regarding the gifted community. Also, checkout our Pinterest Page and Playlist on YouTube.

Head Shot 2014-07-14  About the author: Lisa Conrad is the Moderator of Global #gtchat Powered        by TAGT and Social Media Manager of the Global #gtchat Community. She is a longtime  advocate for gifted children and also blogs at  Gifted Parenting Support. Lisa can be contacted at: gtchatmod@gmail.com

Links:

Starting and Sustaining a Parent Group to Support Gifted Children (pdf)

SENG Model Parent Groups 

SENG Online Parent Support Groups

Gifted Parent Groups: The SENG Model (book)

The Care and Feeding of Gifted Parent Groups (pdf)

Parent Support Groups at Vanderbilt

Starting a Gifted Parent Group

How Parents Can Support Gifted Children

The Nuts and Bolts of Forming a Parent Group

How Parent Advocacy Groups Can Make a Difference

AUS: Gifted Families Support Group Inc.

The Oxygen Mask: Gifted and 2e Parenting

Hong Kong Academy for Gifted Education: Parent Support Groups

TAGT Family Nights

Katy Parents of Gifted & Talented Students Wins Award

AUS: Support Groups Victoria

What Makes a Parent Group Successful?

MAGC: Starting & Sustaining a Parent Advocacy Group

Advocating for Exceptionally Gifted Young People (pdf)

Supporting Gifted Education through Advocacy

Cybraryman’s Gifted Parenting Resources

“Lazy” is a Four Letter Word. Don’t Use It in Front of Children

The Tres Columnae Project

 

Graphic courtesy of Lisa Conrad. Image courtesy of MorgueFile.

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Holiday Stress and Gifted Families with guest Jade Rivera

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Holiday stress is an issue that affects many families with gifted members. This week, Jade Rivera joined us to search for ways to alleviate this stress and enjoy the holiday season. Jade is an educator and consultant who specializes in gifted education for highly sensitive, asynchronous learners. She is hosting a Community Call on November 10th “Holiday Stress & The Gifted Family” for Gifted Homeschoolers Forum.

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Many factors come into play when talking about why gifted children find the holidays difficult to enjoy. The disruption in their daily routine, high expectations of others, perfectionism, empathy for the less fortunate all contribute in some way to the anxiety they feel.

It is possible to prevent many of the negative reactions experienced during the holidays with planning in advance by talking to children and family members about expectations and what to do when it just gets to be ‘too much’. Developing a plan beforehand is key to experiencing a happy holiday season with your family. A full transcript of the chat may be found here.

 

Global #gtchat Powered by the Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented is a weekly chat on Twitter. Join us Fridays at 7/6 C & 4 PT in the U.S., midnight in the UK and Saturdays 1 PM NZ/11 AM AEDT to discuss current topics in the gifted community and meet experts in the field. Transcripts of our weekly chats can be found at Storify. Our Facebook Pageprovides information on the chat and news & information regarding the gifted community.

Head Shot 2014-07-14About the author: Lisa Conrad is the Moderator of Global #gtchat Powered by TAGT and Social Media Manager of the Global #gtchat Community. She is a longtime advocate for gifted children and also blogs at Gifted Parenting Support. Lisa can be contacted at: gtchatmod@gmail.com

 

Links:

This Halloween, Banish The Boo & Conquer The (Worry) Monster! by Dr. Dan Peters

A Recipe for a Peaceful Holiday Season from SENG Gifted

Holiday Survival Guide for Parents of Gifted Children

Cycling Through the Holiday: The IPSE Four-Stip Process for Managing Hard Stuff

Dear Parents: Here’s How to Survive & Thrive at the Holidays from Pamela Price at Red, White and Grew

Happy Crappy Holidays! by Celi Trepanier of Crushing Tall Poppies

oliday Tips & Tricks for High Maintenance Introverts   by Amy Harrington

Holidays, 2e, and the Man in the Red Suit

Keeping my Sanity Through the Holidays with a 2E Child by Care Martin

Naked Holidays: Stripping for Low Stress by Wenda Sheard

Pinterest and the Myth of Holiday Perfection by Jen Merrill at Laughing at Chaos

Surviving the Christmas Season by Jo Freitag at Sprite’s Site

Handling the Holidays with Your Gifted Child: Excitement, Anxiety and Acting-Out Behavior

Managing Your Gifted Kid’s Intensity During the Holidays

Holidays & Your Gifted Child

Reducing Holiday Stress

Parenting Gifted Children through the Holidays

Starting a Gifted Parent Group

Gifted Parent Group

 

There are a multitude of reasons for starting a parent support group; not the least of which is advocating for an appropriate gifted education program as well as for peer support. The benefits are numerous … realizing you aren’t alone; strength in numbers; and providing a peer network for your children. As teacher Justin Schwamm said, “It can be VERY isolating to be parent of gifted child, especially in a smaller community.” Tracy Fisher, Board Member from TAGT, reminded us that parent groups can “partner with your school district and improve services.”

By starting an advocacy/support group, parents are modeling how to advocate; an important life skill for gifted children. Support groups are often a parent’s first source of information on giftedness and about programs at local schools. Parent groups can also provide activities for gifted children to bond with their intellectual peers outside school.

What is the difference between an advocacy group and a support group? We tend to think of advocacy when speaking of education and support for general parenting of gifted kids. Krissy Venosdale framed her response like this ~ “Advocacy is ‘I want you to understand.’ Support is ‘we understand each other’.”  Amy Harrington, SENG Board member, said, “Advocacy groups teach and guide while support groups foster discussion and relationship building.'” And this from Jo Freitag of Gifted Resources in Australia, “Some parent groups fill both roles – advocacy groups would lobby politicians, education, etc; support groups would care for members.” A full transcript can be found here.

 

Global #gtchat Powered by the Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented is a weekly chat on Twitter. Join us Fridays at 7/6 C & 4 PT in the U.S., midnight in the UK and Saturdays 1 PM NZ/11 AM AEDT to discuss current topics in the gifted community and meet experts in the field. Transcripts of our weekly chats can be found at Storify. Our Facebook Pageprovides information on the chat and news & information regarding the gifted community.

Head Shot 2014-07-14About the author: Lisa Conrad is the Moderator of Global #gtchat Powered by TAGT and Social Media Manager of the Global #gtchat Community. She is a longtime advocate for gifted children and also blogs at Gifted Parenting Support. Lisa can be contacted at: gtchatmod@gmail.com

 

Special thanks to Leslie Graves, President of the World Council for Gifted and Talented Children; Margaret Keane of GiftedKids.ie; and Rose Sero from the Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented for providing us with many of our links!

Links:

SENG Model Parent Groups

Texas Association for the Gifted & Talented “Parent Support Group Information

Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented “Establishing a Parent Support Group

What Makes a Parent Group Successful? (pdf)

Supporting Gifted Education Through Advocacy (pdf)

Sample By-Laws for a Parent Advocacy Group (pdf)

NAGC Advocacy Toolkit (US)

NAGC “How to Start a Parent Support Group” brochure (pdf)

NAGC ‘Effective Advocates’ (pdf) Series of Articles

NAGC “Pre-K-Grade 12 Gifted Programming Standards” (pdf)

NAGC Gifted Program Assessment Tool (pdf)

How Parent Advocacy Groups Can Make a Difference

A Parent’s Guide to Gifted Children (Amazon)

Starting & Sustaining a Parent Group to Support Gifted Children (pdf – ebook)

Care & Feeding of Gifted Parent Groups: Guide for Gifted Coordinators, Teachers & Parents

Vanderbilt Programs for Talented Youth: Parent Support Groups

From IEA Gifted Gifted Child Parent Support Groups

Guidelines for Running a Support Group (pdf) via Giftedkids.ie

Gifted Ireland: Starting a Group

Good Practice Guidelines for Peer Led Family Support Groups (pdf)

Speak Ireland (monthly parent meet-ups)

Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented Effective Advocacy

Working Effectively as a Parent Association (pdf)

Creating and Facilitating Peer Support Groups (pdf)

Pennsylvania Association for Gifted Education Starting a P.A.G.E. Affiliate

Pennsylvania Association for Gifted Education P.A.G.E. Affiliate Resources

New Zealand ~ Effective Parent Support Groups: The Magic Ingredients (pdf)

Cybraryman’s Gifted Advocacy Page

Parenting Gifted Kids: Tips for Raising Happy & Successful Gifted Children (Amazon)

When Gifted Kids Don’t Have All the Answers (Amazon)

Coppell Gifted Association (TX)

Additional State Resources:

Alabama Association for Gifted Children’s Parent Corner

Arizona Association for Gifted and Talented Parent Institute

Arkansans for Gifted and Talented Education Affiliate Program

California Association for the Gifted Parents’ Page

Colorado Association for Gifted and Talented Affiliates Page

Connecticut Association for the Gifted Parent Handbook

Florida Gifted Network Parent Group Links

Georgia Association for Gifted Children Local Chapters

Illinois Association for Gifted Children Parent Affiliates

Indiana Association for the Gifted Parent Center

Iowa Talented and Gifted Association Families

Kansas Association for the Gifted, Talented and Creative Parent Resources

Kentucky Association for Gifted Education Family Links

Massachusetts Association for Gifted Education Information

Michigan Association for Gifted Education Chapters

Minnesota Council for the Gifted and Talented Local Chapters and Parent Groups

Mississippi Association for Gifted Children Parent Affiliate Groups

Gifted Association of Missouri Parent Resources

Montana AGATE Parent Support Groups

Graphic courtesy of Pixabay.

Meet SENG

SENG Conference 2014

This week’s chat was scheduled to coincide with the SENG (Social Emotional Needs of the Gifted) Annual Conference in San Jose, CA.  One announcement of interest made during our chat was that SENG will now be a membership organization; details to be forthcoming. Due to technical difficulties, no transcript of the chat could be provided.

Below, please find links to SENG resources.

gtchat thumbnail logoGlobal #gtchat Powered by the Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented is a weekly chat on Twitter. Join us Fridays at 7/6 C & 4 PT in the U.S., midnight in the UK and Saturdays 1 PM NZDT/11 AM AEDT to discuss current topics in the gifted community and meet experts in the field. Transcripts of our weekly chats can be found at Storify. Our Facebook Pageprovides information on the chat and news & information regarding the gifted community.

Head Shot 2014-07-14About the author: Lisa Conrad is the Moderator of Global #gtchat Powered byTAGT and Social Media Manager of the Global #gtchat Community. She is a longtime advocate for gifted children and also blogs at Gifted Parenting Support. Lisa can be contacted at: gtchatmod@gmail.com

Links:

Supporting the Emotional Needs of the Gifted

National Parenting Gifted Children Week July 20-26, 2014

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SENG Strategic Plan 2012 – 2017

SENG Model Parent Groups

Parents Guide to Gifted Children

 

 

 

 

 

A Parent’s Guide to Gifted Children 

SENG Online Parent Support Groups

SENG Article Library

SENG Find a Mental Health Professional

SENG Honor Roll of Outstanding Educators

SENG Honor Roll of Outstanding Educators Nomination Form

Continuing Education SENGinars (CE Units available)

 

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